to know or not to know... that is the question.

Back when Max and I first started talking about having a baby, the subject of finding out the gender was one of almost immediate disagreement. Bottom line- I really, really, really want to know and Max thinks that we should wait. "It is one of life's last real surprises" he says. And honestly, I can see his point. Years ago no one knew the gender of their baby until the day it popped it's little head out. And back then those people were still able to prepare the nursery, connect with the baby growing inside them, pick a name... all that good stuff.

But the thing is... now we CAN know before hand and just knowing that we could know makes me want to know EVEN MORE :) I want to prepare the nursery and buy gender specific things. I want to narrow down name options to either boy names or girl names and prepare the baby's big brother for what is to come. I would love to refer to the baby as a "he" or "she" rather than an "it" (I could go on and on...)

So, I have decided to take a poll to see what all of you think! All of your answers are anonymous and you can see the results right after you vote. So go, let me know what you think :)

Did you find out the gender of your baby before birth?

Yes

No

I didn't have the option when I gave birth

I have never had a baby

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If you were given the choice, would you find out the gender of your baby before birth?

Yes

No

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And now for the most important question.... :)

Do you think we are having a boy or a girl?

Boy

Girl

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Thanks for playing along!